Dating App With Foreigners

Indonesian women are different with women from other Asian countries. Generally speaking, Indonesian girls have long dark-colored hair, a tiny body, bigger brown eyes, sensual appearance and amazing smile.

Many girls in the country’s provinces (about one third) use Jilbab (a kind of loose long coat worn by Muslim Women), but girls from big cities like Jakarta, Christian or Hindu areas are more open. They are usually slim, pretty and wear jeans and T-shirt. Indonesian girls like being with foreigners so much that even a very common man have chances to date models and actresses from the country. Of course if you are good looking with a decent job and salary, you will have very high success rate of dating Indonesian women.

Today it has become very convenient to find your ideal lovers in Indonesia. many Indonesian girls resort to internet to find their foreign partners. You can sign up any of the Indonesian dating sites below. I suggest you find girls from a big cities such as Jakarta, you will always find some hidden gems among the many local girls. Please check my reviews of Indonesian dating sites below.

The way people try to get to know new people has changed a lot in the last decade, going from bars, pubs, and clubs to dating apps, which have been trying to satisfy these changing needs. Dating as a foreigner in America: Everyone thinks I’m just looking for a green card. Tell me about their dating app engagement rocketing after they erase their nationalities from their bios. Filipino App - Meet Date Foreign Men. Digital Appz Dating. Add to Wishlist. If you are a Filipina looking into dating foreigners, there are a couple of things you need to understand. While in some ways men are all the same, in reality it may be slightly different when you’re trying to get the attention of someone. The way people try to get to know new people has changed a lot in the last decade, going from bars, pubs, and clubs to dating apps, which have been trying to satisfy these changing needs. Nowadays we find countless apps, like Tinder, Badoo, Bumble.

1. IndonesianCupid (Dating Sites and App)


Indonesian Cupid is a top Indonesian dating site connecting local singles with foreign singles. This is the biggest Indonesian dating site for foreigners. Now it has both dating site and android dating app available.

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Indonesian Cupid is part of well-reputed Cupid Media, one of the largest dating services in the world. Indonesian Cupid has more than one million male and female registers from both Indonesia and around the world. Most girls here are serious and are interested in long time relationships. The site has brought thousands of happy men and women together and you can find their happy stories on the site.

It is easy to get started: First, create a profile and upload your photo; Second, start browse photos with different preferences and settings; Third, send a message or interest and start communicating. It is your time to shine.

The site offers various functions like creating profile, text messaging, delivering “interest”, online chatting and so on. You can put a girl to your like list very easily and then look through the girls’ profiles and make a profile list you would like to contact.

One feature on Indonesian Cupid is that Indonesian girls here tend to write more about themselves on dating profile such as likes and dislikes, which is very different from girls in countries such as Thailand and Philippines who spend less time on their profile. This means that Indonesian girls put some thoughts into finding their love. Besides, girls on this platform are more middle class compared with dating app Tinder. Probably, you’ll chat with company employees, teachers, nurses, etc.

Indonesian Cupid is a quite active site and there are always at least 500-1000 Indonesian girls and Chinese Indonesian girls online. Compared with other sites, I must say that this is the best place to find Indonesian singles. I will give it 5 stars and strongly recommend it to you.

Pros:

  • Large member base with lots of members
  • Easy to use platform
  • Free to register and create a profile
  • Support multiple languages
  • Both site and Android app are available

Cons:

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  • No Apple app is available

2. Badoo.com(available on dating site and dating app)

Badoo.com is another excellent dating site which is often used by Indonesian singles. Though it is an international site (with more than 46 million members world wide), many open and modern Indonesian women especially in Jakarta like to be on Badoo and there are often hundreds of Indonesian girls online.

You can find large numbers of Indonesian girls with different background. You can choose your ideal girls through age, place, status, etc. The free basic service allows you to send messages to 5 girls per day, upload photos and chat.

A paid member can enjoy more advanced features. Many girls here can speak English and most of them hope to see foreign lovers. However, it seems that there are some prostitutes who look for clients on Badoo. Be careful with that.

It is an international site which supports more than 40 languages, so no need to worry if you do not speak Indonesian.

The functions are very good for a free member, you can send text message to a small number of people everyday. Paid members can get access to more profiles. Badoo has both website and app available (both Android and iPhone).

Pros:

  • 3 months Free trial
  • Leading Kenyan dating site
  • Free and easy registration
  • Good response rate
  • Live video chat and message chat
  • Android app is available
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Cons:

  • At least one member need to be paid member before exchange message.

3. AsianDating.com(Available on Android App)


Asian dating was founded 10 years ago and a long-time standing dating site for Asian singles. On Asiandating.com, you can find and chat with any kind of women you could imagine from Asia: staff, executives, single mum…… from any background.

The site has more than 2.5 million singles from China, Indonesia, Philippines, Thailand, Japan and other countries and regions of Asia.

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If you want to find a girl in Indonesian cities such as Jakarta. The best option is AsianDating, where most girls hope to develop a steady romantic relationship with foreigners. (Of course, some are looking for money or one night stand.) But this does not suggest they will get married immediately, they expect to have a long-term romance which may lead to marriage.

AsianDating offers free membership, you can create a free profile with just several minutes, then browse photos of other members, then send message or interest to start communicating.

It allows basic functions such as text messaging, and sending email, premier members can contact many more girls and have online video chat with ideal girls. The advantage is that here you can not only find Indonesian girls but also girls from other Asian countries.

Pros:

  • Free account and register your profile
  • User-friendly interface with easy to use functions
  • Lots of active members from all around Asia
  • Advanced search and matching system
  • Android app is available

Cons:

  • iOS app is not available.

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4. Tinder

Tinder is a popular dating App. It was first used by foreign and Western-educated girls in Indonesia, now it has expanded to a trendy app in the country. Strictly speaking, Tinder is not a typical dating site, it is a platform to make friends, or rather, to find casual sex.

The girls on Tinder tend to younger, speak English, well-educated and many have good jobs, this is the place where many Indonesian girls hope to meet foreigners. It is almost free to use. Creating an account needs to connect with Facebook or your mobile phone. So it can make sure the members are real persons to a large extent and avoid scams.

Tinder allows members to use a swiping function to like (swipe right) or dislike (swipeleft) other members, and allows users to chat if both people like each other (a “match”). It is a cool function which makes you much easier to find another dating partner.

A free member can find girls nearby, if you stay abroad, you can not chat with girls in Jakarta. ( you need to pay to search for girls in other areas). If you travel to Jakarta or Bali, Tinder is the best app for you hook-up and one-night-stand hunting.

Pros:

  • Creating a profile is quick and easy
  • A lot of members
  • You can find people with all gender identities
  • Quick to find people near your by a glance of their picture

Cons:

  • Most users are quite sex-focused

5. Instagram

Instagram is very popular in Indonesia and is the second most popular social platform for young people (behind Facebook). It has more than 800 million members worldwide and most people on Instagram are aged from 20 to 25.

People mainly use Instagram to check funny or joke pics as well as post travel photos. However, it can be regarded as a dating website in Indonesia. It has both Android and iOS App available.

You can add your travel and life photos and follow the accounts of girls and comments on their pictures. However, as many girls here are not single and they may not be active in finding a boyfriend here, it takes time and need to be patient on Instagram.

Above are the top 5 most popular dating sites and app in Indonesia, check and find which one suits you best. If you have any advise or suggestion about any dating site in Indonesia, please leave a comment below.

More expats in China are using dating apps to diversify their social circles and romantic options. Photo: IC


It was 11 pm on a Saturday night, and Jeff, a European expat who has been living in Beijing for five years, was just back from a party where he met a lot of new people, both foreigners and Chinese. Still, though, he felt just a little bit empty, a little bit restless, and so he logged onto Tantan, a Chinese dating app similar to Tinder, that he has been using for the past year.
He started swiping through prospective partners' pictures and limited profiles, which include information like age, zodiac sign and occupation. Swiping left means you do not like the person, right means you do. Left, left, and then, 'Oh, this girl is pretty. She's got a nice smile,' he said to himself, and swiped right. It was a match, which meant the girl also liked him. 'Hi, how are you?' he typed.
According to Jeff's profile on Tantan, 5,166 girls have liked him over the past year, which translates to 5,166 chances to meet new girls online. In that time, he's achieved 1,196 matches, which meant that he and 1,196 girls liked each other.
Chinese dating apps have been seeing growing popularity among expats living in China, in part because many foreigners' social circles are largely limited to other expats, and these apps give them the chance to meet and date locals. Among the most popular apps, both for Chinese and foreign singles, are Tantan, Momo and Skouts.
Sun Yang, a public relations director from Momo, told Metropolitan that they have seen more expats using their dating app over the past few years, though they didn't have any statistics detailing their number of foreign users.
Another dating app, Tantan, didn't reply to Metropolitan's calls as of press date, but according to Metropolitan's count, it contains around one expat user for every 10 Chinese users in expat-heavy neighborhoods like Guomao and Sanlitun.
Milo Gonzales, a Beijing-based relationship counselor from the US, said that dating apps are a quicker and easier way to meet new people for expats.
'It gives people the opportunity to talk and communicate to see if they have the same interests, and if their general viewpoints click before they meet in person to see if they are right for each other,' he said.

Women from the West and from China generally take different approaches to dating when using dating apps in China. Photo: IC


Some believe that relationships that start through dating apps tend to be more shallow since users are more focused on appearances. Photo: IC


The good and bad of cross-cultural dating
What Jeff likes about dating apps is how easy it is to find and meet pretty local girls. In real life, many expats work so much that they have only limited time to socialize, and when they do, according to Jeff, they mostly hang out with other expats.
'Dating apps help break that invisible boundary between expats and locals,' he said.
That has indeed been the case for the two male expats who talked to Metropolitan, both of whom have noticed they are more popular on Chinese dating apps than they are on apps in their home countries.
A case in point is Bruce from the UK, who has only been using Tantan for one month but has already received 236 matches.
'In the UK, when I use Tinder, I usually get 20 to 30 matches tops, because there are fewer girls who swipe right for me than in China.'
Another difference, according to Bruce, is that in the UK, it is usually guys who start the conversation and do the work to try and impress and win over the girls.
'In China, I feel the girls are more keen to meet with me and impress me. Chinese girls don't have arrogance is the best way to explain it, I guess.'
In his experience, Chinese girls on Tantan usually start conversations by asking where he comes from and what he does in Beijing, before asking for his WeChat, and then if he wants to meet up.
'But I think it's too quick,' Bruce said. So far, he has met two girls through Tantan.
Andrew, a Brit in Beijing who's been using Chinese dating apps for five months, says he quickly discovered that while women in the West generally start out chatting about shared interests, Chinese women are more likely to ask about his job and future plans.
He recalls one Chinese girl who, after a single date, began planning their wedding and future together in China.
'I understand that in China, some girls are facing pressure to get married before a certain age, which drives them to want to get serious faster in relationships,' said Andrew.
Another source of culture shock for expats is unrealistic expectations.
Shim Bo-kyung (pseudonym), a 24-year-old student from South Korea, said he often gets the impression that his Chinese dates like to imagine him as being just as rich and handsome as the characters from South Korean TV series.
'Some of my online dates would call me Oppa (Korean for 'older brother,' a term of endearment sometimes used for boyfriends) in a coquettish way just like in South Korean TV series, even though they are older than me, which just freaks me out,' he said.
'Some of them also assume that I am rich, even though I am just a student who works part time,' he said.
Shim added that some Chinese girls have even asked if he comes from a wealthy family like in the famous South Korean TV series The Heirs.
Flings vs serious relationships
Although dating apps have made it easier to meet more people, the relationships formed are often short-lived and shallow, because they were based in the first place on little more than appearances.
'With dating apps, people check out one another's pictures very quickly, and if they think you're attractive, that's it,' Jeff said. 'Most don't even look at the information you've written down.'
Gonzales said that, according to his observations, most guys who use dating apps are more interested in casual relationships, because so many apps are geared at hooking up.
Other expats have different intentions, and use dating apps more to meet locals, learn the language and deepen their understanding of China.
Bruce, for example, wanted to make new friends and maybe find someone who wanted to learn English and could teach him Chinese at the same time. As a result, he met a 19-year-old student who wants to study in the UK, and they've been meeting up to do a language and culture exchange.
Erika, a 22-year-old student from South Korea, has similar intentions to Bruce.
'I'm not looking for the love of my life on dating apps. I use them more for the sake of having different experiences and expanding my world view. By meeting more people from different backgrounds and careers, I've learned a lot about interacting with different kinds of people. I've learned how to start and carry a conversation, to alleviate awkward tension and to listen to others' stories,' Erika said.
She said the best experiences are when you hit it off with someone, and end up talking endlessly.
She recalls one guy she met, who works at an IT company, with whom she had a great conversation about philosophy and life. He also expressed interest in making Korean friends, since his work and social environment is exclusively Chinese.
'I've been surprised to see how eager most people are to interact with foreigners; it's just that they usually have few chances to do so,' Erika said. 'I think Chinese guys are more willing to start conversations with expat girls on apps than they are in real life.'


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